How to face mistakes/Problems you have done in life: Find solutions of it easily
Every single one us have done something in our lives which we regret. Or may be we’re currently struggling for handling it and finding solutions of it. Yet we fail even after trying so hard. But why is it so? – When we make a mistake the first thing happens to us which directly affects our mind is Fear, then tension after that depression. All of this together make us so powerless to think and act on it and make it almost impossible to solve it.
But don’t worry there are some things i have experienced and research by which we can actually solve it easily.
When we stuck at a situation where we have done something wrong which we didn’t intend to do the First thing we all need to do is to remain calm. Always try to keep calm don’t be tensed otherwise it will more worsened the situation. Ways by which you can do so:
- Do what you love to do which gives you happiness
- Go at a noise-free environment which gives you peace
- Talk to a person you trust about your problem
- Try to forget it for sometime and don’t take action on it if its isn’t necessary
By following any of these or most of these methods it will help you to remain calm. After that try to understand the situation. Then try to solve the problem by going to the root of your problem. This is the most effective way to tackle your problems or mistakes. But most of us is not able to do so and hence result in failure again.
But there is another way you can try. The main thing which give powers to your problems is your fear. If somehow you are able to eliminate it or even make it low then the situation is under control.
All of us fear from 3 main things the most i.e Reputation, financial and security. In all of these things which we care the most is related to about the image of ourselves in front of our parents or any guardian we have respect for. There is a one single solution – tell them about your problem or mistake you have done. It can be hard for some people but it isn’t impossible. This is the best thing anyone can do and can get instant relief from all mental torture.
I have also done some mistakes which i still regret and somehow i was able to go through it and leave it behind by these ways. I hope this will help you too.
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