How to boost Self-Confidence: Secrets Revealed
Every single-one in this world have their own goals, goals related to their future or what they want to become. Some of you want to be a football player or computer engineer, racing driver, actor, singer, DJ and so on. But in all of these there is one thing in common Self-confidence.
In an interview people thinks that they are looking for hard-working, passionate, goal-oriented person and you might be all of these. But this is not true, in fact these are the last things they are looking for. The most important thing is self-confidence.
Without that SKILL, We are useless because when you lose belief and faith in yourselves, we are DONE. Self-confidence basically means the ability to believe in yourselves to accomplish any tasks no matter the odds, no mater the difficulty, the belief than you can accomplish it. Some of you will think I don’t have it, I am so shy, and bla-bla-bla. But don’t worry, this skill can be trained and I will tell you how:
The easiest way to build self-confidence, there is no magic button, if i say “the plane is going down who can fly it – (hands-up and loudly) I can, i am confident”. NO this is not how it works. It is all Repetition! Repetition! Repetition!
The problem is we expect ourselves to be self-confident but we can’t be unless the thing we are doing is not new to us. we want to be in a situation where we have so much pressure in that (“PRESSURE BUILDS DIAMONDS”) and tell ourselves: “hey i have done this thousand times”. The first time you will be nervous the second time little bit of nervous, third time almost no nervousness at all. It can happen because of your ability to practice over and over again.
You need to practice, practice, practice and do not accept failure. I know that all of us can repeat something but very few of us will persist, You need to persist in order to build self-confidence. Do what you want to do and do not accept NO. That is one way of building self-confidence.
We all have negative self-talks. The fact is there is enough people telling us that we can’t do it, we are not good enough. Why do we need to tell it to ourselves the same thing. we know a fact that “Thoughts influence actions”.
You should tell yourselves that you are the greatest and who else is gonna tell you? – your mom? NO! (she will give you 500% biased opinion). Tell yourselves daily – I am the captain of my ship and the master of my fate, no matter where you come from or what you do. if i don’t say it, if i don’t believe it, no one else will.
Get away from people who tear you down there is enough of it. There is different between ego and self-confidence and false pride. I want you to tell yourselves that in silent moment of yourselves. Everybody makes mistakes and people around you will recognize it and try to tear you down.
Write a letter to yourselves that you’re good at, what you have done right in your life, what you are proud of and always take it with you when you feel low open that letter and read it again and again for many weeks, months or years. LIVE STRONG!
And the last thing i want to tell you that don’t criticize other people instead of that catch them when they are good and tell them about it.
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